NOT EVERYONE ARE MASTER.

 What if you could become someone whom you always wished for? What if you lost yourself?
What if you don’t like to be yourself? , and blah blah….
 So, those are my questions pointing right at you as you wished to see under the topic of “ Not Everyone Are Masters”.
Answer them and listen up to yourself! Let’s dive in!

Everyone is restless in this modern world. Running behind getting jobs, girlfriends, dreams, and multiple things. But, all have one thing in common: to get them better at each trial. Don’t they? There is no other person in this world who is knowingly or unknowingly concerned about what others might be with their success or failure. They notice them and kind of compare them with their normal vitals.

Let me define that as sensory stimulation. That is much more sensitive than you think. We can classify them into two:
1. Rapid game change
2. Depressant.

1. Rapid game changer:

 As I said, your brain always wants something to be fed up with and it cannot stop itself from analyzing things that you need.

This stimulation comes into play when you want something to pick up, and you’re at the direct spot competing with others. You might be probably a beginner/an intermediate guy. I can completely relate to this scenario with me. As a biology student, I had some sort of specific interest in coding. Even though I have a tough time dealing with computers, I wanted that so badly. So I started learning all about them and still I couldn’t get anything for about 2 months. I had received filthy comments from everyone like, Oh! This girl is having a hard time dealing with all these LKG class pieces of stuff. It hurts bad when people comment on you with all these dumps. But I don’t consider any of them. As time passed, it reached its peak and I could barely concentrate.

Here’s the situation. These situations would drive you mad and eventually give better results too when you keep on doing the right things.

Follow the steps down below:

1. Never forget to stand up for yourself.

2. Keep tracking your progress, put forward your plans, and move forth.

3. Remember, you have yourself to be fed up with and not anyone to prove yourself to.

4. Learn always and cruise forward.

5. Never compare your chapter 1 to someone else chapter 100.

 6. Always count the steps separating you from your goal rather than counting the steps between you and your peers. And that behaviour has got its name called cognitive bias.

 

7. Promise yourself that you are going to do better than before; not anyone.

8. Make yourself understand that there is nothing like overnight success. It means you have to work patiently, diligently, and persistently. Only then the compound effect works. 

2. Depressant:

                    Just like the previous case, this also plays with your mindset in a complicated way. As the name itself suggests it depresses your mind. But one can only succeed if one understands how to cope with this kind of situation. Previous stimulation makes you compare yourself with everyone and make things worse. But this thing works as a slow poison. It makes you doubt your abilities and kills you more than anything. It gives no space to your positive thoughts and spreads the massive giant negative weed throughout your mind. And here are my tips to handle this situation :

1. If something worse happens because of you, accept that and don’t give even a minute for you to blame yourself and regret it. I’m not saying that don’t accept your fault. I’m saying this because blaming or regretting makes the situation much worse. And it occludes your path of moving ahead.

2. Find a way to communicate with yourself, so that you can pay attention to your inner self and talk in any situation.

3. If you ever plan of doing something, do that without procrastinating. If you don’t, your mind always judges you as if you are capable of doing nothing. Yeah! It happens. But you can’t sense that too early.

Stay positive always.

This is all about this article and I hope you all lead a better life after reading this.

 THANK  YOU!

       ~ at the verge of mastering everything, we

often fail to master our abilities.